Beautiful girl dating ugly guy
The reason why an ugly guy can have a hot girlfriend is that women can feel attracted to men for reasons other than looks.Some women will only ever accept a perfect looking male model with loads of money and huge penis, but the majority of women have what I call an Open Type, which means that she is open to being with all different types of guys, as long as the guy can make her feel enough attraction in other ways.To explain: These high-school hotties are used to having the sort of unadulterated, fawning adoration that the symmetrically blessed always get in high-school, but the problem is that it doesn't do them any good. I also have a little (and relatively untested) theory. In fact, it's fair to say that it categorically does them harm. I believe that women tend to come into themselves -- appearance-wise -- much later in school than men.
There are plenty of studies on this strangely anti-Darwinian phenomenon - studies which I think don't answer the question as well as I, with my oh-so-steadfast opinions, can, do, and will. Let's talk about what exactly is wrong with these conventionally attractive men, and let's talk about what is right about these, well, conventionally -attractive men.
After coaching women for many years, I already suspected this, but this was a stark realization when you see just how few men you even find to be average looking. Ok Cupid reports that the most attractive women still receive 5X more email than average women and 28X more email than unattractive women.
Literally 2/3 of male messages go to the best looking 1/3 of women.
Now a braniac over at Slate has taken on a pertinent dating question from a reader: Why is it that pretty women often end up with unattractive men?
While the question's debunked with some logic (and a color-coded chart), frankly… Furthermore, we're trained for this very physical dynamic from the hot wife/regular-schmo husband trope you always see on sitcoms like Everybody Loves The King Of Queens and what have you.